Shy to the light.
My ex said “he had seen too many vaginas” and looking at them “didn’t turn him on anymore” so he refused to go down on me. And it made me really truly self conscious that maybe i was just flawed. Maybe I just wasn’t good enough. And then we broke up and I took a long hard look at myself and realized I have a fucking lovely vag and he was just a huge selfish asshole who was too lazy to go down on me. And from now on I’m not going to let people project their issues onto me in a way that makes me hate myself. If you make me question my worth, my attractiveness, my happiness, then you can leave.
I don’t want your “I’m sorry he did that’s” or “you deserve betters”. I know that already…
I do want you to go home and bury your face between your girls legs and spell her name with your tongue. I want you to tell her you think she’s the most glorious thing you’ve ever seen without using words. I want you to make sure she fucking knows that she is enough. She is always enough. Just as she is.